How to Flirt with a Guy on the First Date
26 Aug
Flirting with your man can be fun. Credit: Christine Lavarda
It doesn’t really matter where you’re at in this beautiful world of ours, it is very important to have a firm grip on one of the most important skills anyone can have and that skill is the know how to flirt with your man.
Flirting on the first date makes it fun and exciting, but to flirt properly, you must forget about your doubts and insecurities and just go with the flow of the moment. After all, it’s perfectly okay to be attracted to him and to show that with your actions. Yes, you may be taking a chance by putting yourself out there for rejection, but the chances are that someone as beautiful as you, on the inside and outside, won’t be turned away.
Here are a few flirting tips for your first date with that someone special:
Put your best foot forward for this special night. Take the time to be well groomed and wear your best outfit. Show him that you went to the trouble to make yourself look good and that you expect the same from him.
Keep your head up and make eye contact during conversation. Don’t spend the whole night talking about yourself. Spend time listening and show a genuine interest in your guy. Mind your body language. Keep an open posture and smile. Don’t sit or stand with your arms crossed as this represents a defensive stance and is a big turn off.
Don’t be afraid to be open and offer a touch when the moment is right. Hold hands or just stand close and share your personal space. Guys don’t always want to be the ones to make the first move. It can be very refreshing for the girl to take the initiative and show him what she wants. Don’t forget the alone time. This can build intimacy in a new relationship and helps with bonding. Whisper, make more direct eye contact, snuggle up to him, show him that you’re interested.
These are some good basic flirting tips for your first date night. Another good place to find out more about how to flirt with your guy is the book How to Flirt with Men which is full of tips and tricks for making flirting with your man easier than ever.
